AuthorThe Relaxed Therapist

You can always be misunderstood

There are two aims in any conversation: unambiguous expression of your own position and complete comprehension of the other person's views. We should always remember that neither of these is a realistic goal.

Be on time for your clients

Be on time for your appointments & consultations. Punctuality conveys professionalism, respect and allows you to address & manage possible resistance on the part of the client.

In the Room

A blog focussing upon cognitive behavioural & psychodynamic techniques & issues "in the room" rather than case or theoretical discussions.

The Golden Rule is universal

Treat others as you'd like to be treated is a universal principle. Therapists who avoid working with other faiths and cultures can be assured that there is common ground to work from.

My client is dead

Sooner or later, one of your clients will die. Waiting until it occurs to consider how this might affect you would be unwise.

You will upset your clients

Apparently innocuous comments can upset your clients. You can't avoid triggering issues unknown to you, but you can be ready to respond if they are brought to light.

Check you have the right client

Check you have the right person before you begin your session. There is scope for confusion in busy clinics, but mistakes can occur even in otherwise empty waiting rooms.

Dibs In Search Of Self

A detailed, session-by-session account of a therapeutic intervention. Written by the therapist and detailing all the detours & blind alleys that never make it into textbook accounts of the therapeutic process.